OSHO, WHAT IS DIPLOMACY?
DIPLOMACY IS A BEAUTIFUL NAME for all kinds of cunningness. It is a beautiful
label for all that is ugly. It is an effort to cover human violence, human stupidity, human
cunningness, behind a beautiful word. Diplomacy is simply an effort to dominate. It may
be between persons, it may be between religions, it may be between countries -- it does
not matter. Even husbands and wives are in a diplomatic relationship, parents and
children are in a diplomatic relationship. It is not only in politics, it is in our whole life.
When you see somebody and you feel, "Now my whole day is wasted; seeing this bastard
early in the morning is a perfect indication that something wrong is going to happen,
some calamity is going to happen to me," but you say to the man, "Hello! How are you?
Glad to see you!" -- that is diplomacy.
Diplomacy has entered into our blood. When you don't love your wife and pretend that
you love her, it is diplomacy. When without any love you hug your children, just because
it has to be done, because Dale Carnegie says so: HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND
INFLUENCE PEOPLE....
Dale Carnegie is the prophet of the modern age. Dale Carnegie's book, HOW TO WIN
FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE, has sold next only to the Bible. It seems to be
even more important than the Bible, because the Bible is being distributed free by the
Christian missionaries and Dale Carnegie's book you have to purchase. And what he
teaches is simply diplomacy.
He says that even if you don't mean it, at least a few times in the day remind your wife
how much you love her. That's enough, because people don't bother about love; people
live in words. If you say, "I love you," that's enough. If you go on repeating, "I love you,"
that becomes a proof that you really love. This is a very ugly state of affairs. Humanity
has fallen so low that Dale Carnegie becomes the prophet.
Diplomacy is not only political, not any more -- it has entered into every arena of life.
And wherever it enters it brings pseudoness, falsity; it destroys authenticity, sincerity,
honesty. It makes you say things which you don't mean, it makes you do things which
you don't mean. It makes you many instead of one; you become a crowd. You go on
carrying many masks with you because you never know which mask will be needed in a
certain situation.
And not only has man become diplomatic -- even animals who live with man become
diplomatic, dogs become diplomatic. Watch a dog.... A stranger comes to your house,
knocks on the door. The dog starts two things: he starts barking and at the same time he
wags his tail. This is diplomacy! because he is not certain whether the man who has
knocked on the door is really a friend of the master or not -- it is better to keep your feet
in both the boats, then whatsoever turns out to be right you can withdraw from the wrong
one. Then you come out of the house and the dog sees that the stranger is a friend; the
barking stops and the tail continues to wag.
Man contaminates everything; even innocent people like dogs are corrupted by human
contact. You start teaching small children to be diplomatic. On the one hand you go on
telling them, "Be true, be sincere be honest," and then one day a man comes to the door
and you tell your son, "Go and say that daddy is out." Now the boy is puzzled. What to
do?
My own way in my childhood was to go out and say to the man, "Daddy says he is out."
What else to do? One has to be true and one has to be obedient too. Now either I can be
true or I can be obedient....
Small children, we start corrupting their minds. We corrupt animals, and it is possible one
day we will discover that we even corrupt trees, because they are also very sensitive.
Living with man they must be learning all kinds of things from humanity.
Alfie and Dan, two Cockney pub crawlers, were in their cups one afternoon when Alfie
pointed to a woman sitting at the end of the bar. "Hey!" he said, That woman looks like
Queen Elizabeth!"
"Nah," replied Dan. "What would the Queen be doing in a pub in hogtown?"
"I am telling you it is her," insisted Alfie. "Can't you see the resemblance?"
"Look, that ain't the Queen," said Dan. "And I am willing to bet five on it."
"You are on!" came the reply. "I will go ask her." He walked over to the woman sitting at
the bar and said, "I beg your pardon, are you the Queen?"
"Get lost, you little runt," growled the woman, before I kick your ass across the room!"
He returned to his seat. "Well?" his friend asked.
"Well, she didn't say she was and she didn't say she wasn't."
This is diplomacy!
A religious person has to drop all diplomacy. He has to be authentic, sincere; he has to be
as he is: no pretensions, no false personalities, no facades; just being utterly nude as you
are, utterly naked in your reality.
The moment you can gather that much courage you will be so filled with joy...you cannot
believe right now, you cannot even conceive right now, because it is our falsities which
are like parasites on our being; they go on sucking our blood. The more falsities you
create around yourself, the more miserable you become, the more you are in a hell.
To live in falsities is to live in hell: to live authentically is to be in heaven.
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